Mugou

On the social app Soul, the first step to make the other person fall in love with you is to build the concept of "us". This concept may sound simple, but it's actually the key to warming up the relationship. Think about it, when you're chatting with someone, if you're always talking about "I" or "you", doesn't it feel a bit strange? On the other hand, when you start talking about "us", doesn't it feel like there's a magical connection? For example, you could say: "Don't you feel like, although we haven't known each other for long, our views on the world are surprisingly consistent? This kind of soul-deep resonance is really rare on Soul." This technique is called "strengthening the sense of belonging" in psychology. When she starts to identify with you as a team, the subsequent ambiguous guidance will become more natural. On Soul, building this kind of "exclusive" soul connection is the fastest way to get to ambiguity, making the other person feel like only you can understand her. Building the concept of "us" on Soul is not just about getting closer, but also about building a deeper connection. This connection can make your relationship more solid and more interesting. So, next time you're chatting on Soul, remember to talk about "us", not just "I" or "you". At the same time, building the concept of "us" also requires you to have a deeper understanding of the other person. Try to discover your common points, common interests, and common values. These will all help you build the concept of "us" better and take your relationship to the next level.