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When someone is plagued by intense feelings of inferiority, they often exhibit a mysterious aggressiveness. This is because the true source of their pain is not others, but their own inability to accept themselves. This sense of inferiority makes them extremely sensitive to their surroundings, and they subconsciously interpret ordinary comments, glances, or unintentional neglect as rejection, disdain, or provocation. To protect their fragile self-esteem, they can only attack others first, using aggression, sarcasm, anger, and control to cover up their inner anxiety. This behavior pattern may make them feel temporarily safe, but in reality, their self-esteem and confidence have not been genuinely enhanced. Often, the more someone flaunts themselves, likes to belittle others, and easily loses their temper, the more it reveals their lack of true security. Truly confident people are usually relaxed and don't need to attack others to prove themselves. They can face their shortcomings and deficiencies calmly and are willing to accept criticism and suggestions from others. So, how can we break free from this psychological defense mechanism of inferiority? First, we need to bravely face our inner selves, acknowledging our shortcomings and weaknesses. Second, we need to learn to accept criticism and suggestions from others, believing in our ability to handle and improve. Finally, we need to cultivate our self-confidence, believing in our ability to succeed and grow.