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In families, we often encounter various problems, such as poverty and quarrels. However, what's truly terrifying is not these issues, but rather the fact that people with shallow cognition hold the highest authority. They do not believe in understanding and respect, but instead, control and obedience. Their mindset is centered around winning and losing, high and low, and who can suppress whom. Such individuals are often stubborn and narrow-minded, with a cognition stuck in the past, and they refuse to learn and reflect. They always think they are right, using emotions to suppress reason and using dominance to cover up their ignorance. They mistake bias for experience, control for discipline, and suppression for 'being good for you.' This environment can destroy a person's confidence, desire for expression, and vitality. The real disaster in a family is not a lack of money, but rather living in a long-term low-cognition, high-control environment. This environment can make people feel oppressed, desperate, and even lose the joy of living. Therefore, we must recognize the existence of this problem and strive to change it. We need to learn, broaden our horizons, and become more open-minded and tolerant. We need to respect others' opinions and listen to their thoughts. We need to create a democratic and equal family environment where everyone can feel free and happy.