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@amuoplm1
Jun 29, 2026, 10:03 AM
A Life in a Daze: Don't Marry Without Love, Don't Have Kids Without Wealth
The story of a girl from Wuhan really tugs at my heartstrings. Her family is completely dysfunctional, and last year they even went hungry. She wanted to borrow four yuan from her mom to buy instant noodles, but her mom just hung up on her. This year, her dad borrowed a thousand yuan from her, leaving her on edge. Luckily, he eventually paid her back.
Her story reminds me of all the people who are just drifting through life. So many people get married without love and have kids without being financially secure. Their lives are like a journey without a destination, just going through the motions day in and day out.
This kind of life isn't just unfair to themselves, but also to their kids. Children need a stable family environment and the love and care of their parents. But when the parents are just drifting through life themselves, how can they provide a happy childhood for their kids?
I think life shouldn't be like this. We should have our own goals and direction, our own love and sense of responsibility. We shouldn't pass our stress on to our loved ones; instead, we should give them a happy future.







