我踏马而来

In relationships, those who dare to show their hand from the start are the real players. Many people think that revealing one's hand at the beginning is foolish, that it makes one vulnerable to being seen through and taken advantage of. But is that really the case? Those who show their hand from the start aren't planning to hide or conceal anything, and they're not afraid of losing. Why? Because their hand is genuine. If you don't want it, they can take it back without any hesitation, without any sunk costs. On the other hand, those who try to hide and calculate everything, the more they invest, the more they're afraid to let go, and in the end, they're trapped by their own web. Showing one's hand is a bold move. A bold move that's unbeatable. Because all your tricks and tests are transparent to them. You think they're on the first level, but they've already flipped the chessboard - I don't play guessing games, I show you my hand from the start, and you dare not to follow? Extreme honesty is never naivety, it's the ultimate filter. It helps you keep out those who aren't worthy, those who play tricks, and those who drain your energy. Only those who can handle your honesty are worthy of entering your world. Don't hide your true self, as if everyone is trying to deceive you. Dare to show it, and you'll be the one in control. Only when you dare to show your hand do you truly have the upper hand.