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I often see men like this, who, after getting married, suddenly become the ' emperor' of the house. They want to have a home, but when they return home, they become like strangers, not taking care of any household chores or asking about anything. They want to have children, but the education and care of the children are all left to the wife alone. They always say they are busy, that work is tiring, and when they return home, they collapse on the sofa, phone in hand, not wanting to take care of anything. When their wives ask, they always respond by saying, 'Isn't this all for the family?' as if they are the only pillar of the family, and their wives and children are just appendages. But when they were single, they always seemed to have plenty of time. When pursuing their girlfriends, they were very patient and romantic. But once they got married, it was as if they suddenly became a different person. They always say they love their family, love their wives and children, but their actions are always at odds with their words. I think, maybe, it's because they have found a sense of security in marriage, feeling that they already have a place to belong, so they start to relax and become lazy. But they don't know that marriage is not a destination, but a starting point. Marriage requires the joint efforts and maintenance of both parties, and the care and companionship of each other.