涂涂姐

Today, I'm going to say something that might offend all my female readers. But I've been writing this blog for 8 years, and I've never lied to you. I've been wanting to say this for a long time, and today I'm going to finally spill the beans. Let me tell you a story. Last week, I had dinner with my girlfriend A. A is 34, and she just finished a blind date with a guy who works for a state-owned enterprise, earns 30,000 yuan a month, is an only child, and has two houses from a demolition project in his hometown. When girls hear about this, their first reaction is always "marry him, marry him, hurry up and marry him", right? But what did A say to me? She said, "Tutu, when I was having dinner with him, I was so bored the whole time." I laughed and said, "But you didn't get bored when you had dinner with your ex, did you? That guy was unemployed, owed a lot of debt, and you broke up with him three years ago. You had dinner with him until 2 am, and you still couldn't sleep afterwards." A was silent for a long time, and then said, "Tutu, I want to marry that state-owned enterprise guy too. But my heart just isn't into it." Brothers, A's sentence "my heart just isn't into it" is the whole point of this article. I'm going to throw out a radical idea, and prepare to be scolded - what women say they want, "security", and what their bodies really want, are two different things. ... Sister, I'll give you a specific analysis - what "wild" means in a man. I'll give you three characteristics. The first characteristic - "boundary sense", not "being a good person". Brothers, this is the most important one. ... Brothers, I'll tell you something even more ruthless - the most fatal attraction that women have to men always comes from "I can't completely possess him". This sounds cruel, but it's the truth. That's why nice guys always get dumped, because they give themselves away too much. ... Sister, I'll give you a final summary - the foundation must be "stable": stable income, clear life planning, reliable character, and a bottom line of not cheating, not gambling, and not being violent. This is for her mom to see, for society to see, and for her mouth to see. The charm must be "wild": having boundary sense, having self-awareness, having action, not being controlled by her emotions, having one's own world, and always keeping a part of oneself that she can't completely possess. This is for her body to see, for her genes to see, and for her subconscious to see. Brothers - "stable foundation + wild charm", these 8 words are the ultimate formula for a man's charm. If you lack any of these, you can't get into her list of men she really wants to marry.