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Many people who are too considerate and used to putting others first often find it difficult to earn money that truly belongs to them. It's not because they lack ability, but because their underlying pattern has been trained to 'satisfy others first, then consider themselves'. This pattern makes them hesitant to discuss benefits, afraid to seize opportunities, and prone to self-blame when mistreated. In the real world, many resources and benefits are obtained through proactive efforts. A person who always yields will gradually lose their position. Many people don't realize until they've been severely hurt that they weren't being overly kind, but rather neglecting themselves. Why is this the case? From childhood, we're taught to prioritize others and be humble. However, excessive humility can become self-neglect. We need to learn to distinguish between humility and self-neglect, and learn to put ourselves first. Growth isn't about becoming selfish, but about learning to put yourself first and then being kind. Only when we truly understand our own value and needs can we better interact with others and realize our own value. So, stop neglecting yourself and learn to put yourself first!