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For ordinary women, the essence of marriage is not about choosing the right person, but about taking responsibility for your choice. Many women view marriage as a lifelong destination, but often overlook the most dangerous aspect of it - not that the man is poor, not that he will change his mind, not even that he's a bad person, but that it can make you completely lose your way. Because no relationship can guarantee eternal stability. What really determines whether a woman can enter into marriage is not whether the other person is perfect enough, but whether you have the ability to independently bear the consequences, re-leave, and re-start when the relationship loses control. A mature view of marriage is not about believing that love will never change, but about being able to live a good life even if the relationship becomes ineffective. This means that women need to have independent economic ability, independent social circles, and independent hobbies to maintain their sense of self in marriage and avoid losing their way. Under this concept, women need to redefine their view of marriage. Instead of viewing marriage as the ultimate goal, they should see it as a part of life's journey. They need to constantly learn, grow, and improve themselves to maintain vitality and happiness in marriage. Of course, this doesn't mean that women need to give up on marriage or love, but rather that they need to take responsibility for their choices and consequences. Only then can they truly have their own happiness and freedom.