我踏马而来

A man suddenly becomes quiet, stops looking for you, stops asking questions, and no longer clings to you persistently. Don't get it wrong – it's not that you're no longer important to him, nor is it that he no longer has you in his heart. It's just that he's finally read between the lines of your perfunctory responses: his concern is harassment to you; his closeness is a burden. So he cuts off all his thoughts by himself. He forces himself to quit his dependence, forces himself to retreat inch by inch. This kind of man is too considerate, considerate to a heartbreaking degree. Once he realizes you don't love him that much, he doesn't need you to say it, doesn't need you to give him the cold shoulder, he'll quietly clean up all his enthusiasm and leave the scene. He doesn't put pressure on you, nor does he leave himself in an awkward position. You think he's naturally strong? That bit of strength is the last bit of dignity he leaves for himself. He's cherished this relationship from start to finish. It's just that the person who doesn't cherish it is you. This kind of considerate man always makes people's hearts ache. Because he knows he's no longer an important role in your heart, so he chooses to quietly exit, leaving you space. Actually, men also need to be loved and cared for. It's just that when they find out their feelings aren't cherished, they'll choose to bear all the pain and reluctance alone. They won't make things difficult for you, nor will they make things difficult for themselves. They'll just quietly leave, leaving you a blank space.