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Using the high-level gameplay of natural flow to accelerate the warming up process, I've been chatting with a female university student I met on Little Red Book, and she's already becoming more and more dependent on me. Previously, she even took the initiative to suggest watching a movie together. Now that it's summer break, she often says she's bored at home, sleeping in until noon every day, with her parents at work and her alone at home. This week, I'm going to Shanghai on a business trip, and it just so happens that it's the weekend when I'm done. I thought to myself, 'This is a perfect opportunity...' I didn't directly say 'let's go together,' but instead naturally brought it up in our chat: 'I'm going to Shanghai on a business trip for two days to discuss a collaboration and catch up with old friends. You're probably bored at home during the summer break, want to come along and hang out, clear your mind? I'm familiar with Shanghai, so I can show you around the Bund and we can grab some good food.' She first sent a surprised expression, then replied, 'Really? Would it be inconvenient for you to bring me along on your business trip?' I responded, 'It's no problem, just that I'll be busy during the day for work, but I'll have plenty of time at night and on the weekends. You're just idle at home, so coming out will be a nice change of scenery, and it'll be nice to have some company for me too.' She hesitated for a moment, but it was clear she was tempted. 'Then... I'll ask my parents, they should be okay with it.' The next day, she took the initiative to tell me that she had already told her parents she was going to a classmate's house to play for two days, and they had agreed. She even sent a photo of her packing her bags, with a bit of excitement: 'First time going on a trip with a guy, feeling a bit nervous.' I reassured her, 'What's there to be nervous about? I'm here, don't worry, I'll take care of everything.' Here, I want to talk about how to construct the framework for a business trip invitation. A business trip invitation is a high-value, high-return operation in natural flow. It comes with a built-in sense of scarcity and high value, can quickly bring you closer together, and allows you to maintain control. The key is to borrow momentum rather than force an invitation, making her feel like it's 'just happening to be together,' rather than you deliberately arranging it. Mention it naturally in advance, don't suddenly say 'let's go together.' Lightly bring up the business trip in your chat, showcasing your lifestyle, and give her some space to imagine. The timing should be when you've already established a certain level of comfort and dependence, and always put her comfort first. Don't make her feel like you're 'specially arranging it for her.' The more casual you are, the more willing she'll be to follow you. Showing an attitude of 'it doesn't matter whether she goes or not' will lower her guard. In short, the core of a business trip invitation is to borrow momentum, create a sense of safety, and give her something to look forward to. Make her feel like 'hanging out with you is very relaxing and worthwhile,' and she'll be more and more willing to follow you. It's about borrowing momentum rather than forcing an invitation, making her feel like it's 'just happening to be together,' while you maintain control and arrangement abilities.