Davidzhu

Men, don't fall in love when you're broke, or you'll be doing yourself a disservice! This topic might be controversial, but I'm saying it anyway: economic foundation determines the upper structure. If you're still worried about making ends meet every month, falling in love might not be the best choice. You need to boost your economic power first, at least to a middle-class standard of living. That way, you'll have the confidence to fall in love and pursue the life you want. Otherwise, you'll find yourself unable to provide the quality of life your partner desires, leaving you feeling inferior and apologetic. Of course, there are exceptions, like finding a partner from a similar background with the same values. In that case, you can work together, support each other, and level up together. This kind of relationship will make you feel more fulfilled and motivated. But if you haven't found that partner yet, don't rush into a relationship. Spend more time on yourself, start a side hustle, work out, learn new skills. These things will make you more attractive and confident, more capable of falling in love and pursuing the life you want. It's better to focus on yourself and delay relationships. Only when you become a better version of yourself will you attract a better partner. So, men, don't fall in love when you're broke – upgrade yourself first!