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You think others remember you as a person, but in reality, most people remember you for your usefulness. This phenomenon is all too common in our daily lives, especially in the workplace and social circles. We're often drawn to people who can help us, satisfy our needs, and meet our demands. However, when we no longer need them, their impression in our minds gradually fades away. The underlying reason for this phenomenon is human selfishness and utilitarianism. We tend to focus on people and things that can bring us direct benefits, while ignoring those who can't satisfy our needs. This mindset is understandable to some extent, as we need to constantly evaluate and choose the people and things that bring us the most benefits in today's competitive society. However, this utilitarian mindset can also have negative consequences. It can lead us to neglect the depth and emotional value of interpersonal relationships, making our relationships shallow and short-lived. We need to realize that true friends and partners are not just people who can help us, but also those who can share moments and emotions with us. Therefore, we need to reflect on our thought patterns and behavior, and try to build more profound and lasting relationships. We need to learn to appreciate and value people who can't directly satisfy our needs, and discover and cultivate true friendships and love. Only then can we build a richer and more meaningful life.