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This book really gets to the heart of the struggles many people face in their lives. We often hear the term 'adult,' but how many of us have truly become 'grown-ups'? Most people, even after physically maturing, remain stuck in a state of childishness, unable to shake off their dependence on their parents and their fear of the outside world. The book 'Second Growth' hits the nail on the head: many people struggle in adulthood not because they're not trying hard enough, but because they're still stuck in a 'childlike mindset.' Their bodies may be adult, but their personalities are frozen in time, leading to anxiety, sensitivity, loss of control, and financial struggles. These problems may seem complex, but their root cause is surprisingly simple: we didn't receive enough security, boundaries, and a sense of responsibility when we were young. Professor Luo's perspective is like a wake-up call: the sense of security, boundaries, and responsibility that our families of origin couldn't provide, we must eventually make up for ourselves. This isn't just a simplistic motivational message; it's a harsh reality. We can't rely on our parents or society to fill in our gaps; we must take it upon ourselves to learn, practice, and change. This book isn't about motivation; it's about uncovering the underlying laws of personal transformation. It teaches us how to fundamentally change our thought patterns and behavior, how to become a true adult. If you want to become a real adult, start with second growth.