𝐒𝐨𝐭𝐚

In common sexual scenarios, men are often expected to present themselves in a more dominant image, which I believe restricts their ability to express themselves in certain aspects. This phenomenon is ubiquitous in our daily lives, and we often hear comments like 'men should be like men,' which puts pressure on them to always appear strong and determined. However, sex is a highly personal and emotional experience, and everyone has their own feelings and needs. Men are no exception, and they also need space to express their emotions and desires. Nevertheless, in mainstream sex culture, men are usually expected to play a dominant and strong role, making it difficult for them to show their vulnerability and emotions. In contrast to women, the physical reactions we often like to see are actually a sign of weakness, a loss of control, both mentally and physically. But in mainstream sex culture, men usually lack the space to exhibit this aspect of themselves. They may feel embarrassed or uncomfortable, which can affect their sexual experience and satisfaction. So, how can we give men more space to express themselves in sex? One way I can think of is to encourage them to let go and express their emotions freely. Perhaps we need to encourage and accept men's emotional expressions in sex more, giving them more space to be themselves. Only then can we truly achieve sexual equality and mutual satisfaction.