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As a boy, have you ever complained about your girlfriend's frigidity? Do you think she is not proactive or enthusiastic enough? But have you ever wondered if it was your actions that ruined her sexual desire? In this article, we’ll look at how to avoid ruining a girl’s sex drive and provide some practical advice on how to be the man she wants. First, we need to understand the truth about frigidity. Less than 5% of girls are truly physiologically apathetic, and the remaining 95% are "made" the day after tomorrow. So, what is true indifference and false indifference? True frigidity refers to a decrease in sexual desire due to physiological reasons (such as hormonal imbalance, disease, trauma), while false apathy refers to a decrease in sexual desire due to psychological or environmental factors. So, how to judge whether she is really cold or fake? You can ask her a few questions: Does she still masturbate? Will she be moved when she sees a handsome guy/idol? Has she ever taken the initiative when having sex with you before? If the answer is "yes", "yes", "yes", then congratulations, she is not frigid, she is just frigid towards you. So, what behaviors can ruin a girl’s sexual desire? Here is the list of sex drive killers: No. 10: Perfunctory foreplay, direct hard sex. Typical scenario: You touch her breasts twice, kiss her on the mouth for a minute, and then start to take off her pants. She's not wet yet, so you push it inside. She frowned in pain, and you asked: "Why isn't it wet yet? Don't you want it?" No. 9: Using AV as a teaching material and acting roughly. Typical scene: You imitate the action in AV, grab her hair and push it down, and let her deepthroat her. Or, you can learn the thrusting frequency in AV and thrust like a pile driver. She was in so much pain that she wanted to push you away, but you thought she was "resisting you in return of welcoming you." No. 8: I only care about my own pleasure, it doesn’t matter whether she orgasms or not. Typical scenario: You cum, then roll over to sleep. She's still lying there, her body still craving orgasm, but you've started snoring. She looked at the ceiling and thought to herself: "Am I just a fucking airplane cup?" No. 7: Poor hygiene makes her sick. Typical scenario: You haven't showered for a day, your private parts have a peculiar smell, and smegma has accumulated in a circle. You also want her to give you a blowjob. She reluctantly took a mouthful and almost spit it out. No. 6: Go to bed after doing it, no aftercare. Typical scenario: You finish cumming, pull out, throw a tissue to her, and then turn over to sleep. She lay on the wet sheets, feeling like disposable trash. No. 5: No remedy after the second shot, leaving her empty. Typical scenario: You cum within 1 minute of entering. You're done before she feels anything. You awkwardly say "I'm sorry" and then nothing happens. No. 4: Not communicating, self-righteous. Typical scenario: You never ask her "What do you like" or "Is this comfortable?" You think your skills are great, but she puts up with it every time. She tries to guide you, but you say "I know how to do it, don't teach me." No. 3: Emotional indifference, only sex but no love. Typical scenario: You are usually very cold to her, don't chat with her, don't care about her life, and don't give her a sense of security. But when night comes, you want to have sex. When she rejects you, you get angry: "How long have we not had sex? Do you not love me anymore?" No. 2: PUA-style humiliation, destroying her self-confidence. Typical scenario: You think her breasts are small, you think she's not tight enough, you think she doesn't know how to wake up, or she doesn't have good skills. You say, "My ex is more playful than you," "Why do you do this," and "Can you learn from others?" No. 1: Force her to do something she doesn’t want to do. Typical scenario: She says "I don't want to do it today", but you say "Just a moment, soon". She said, "I don't like anal sex," but you said, "Try it, you won't know until you try it." She says "I don't want oral sex", but you hold her head and push down. So, how do you repair your ruined libido? First, you need to sincerely apologize and admit that you did something wrong without making excuses. Then, you need to change your behavior, do good foreplay, care about her feelings, and respect her wishes. Finally, you need to rebuild trust, give her time, and don't rush to ask her to "forgive you" or "have sex with you." If you really love her, stop ruining her sexual desire with your ignorance and selfishness.