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@andr_cai
Jul 5, 2026, 06:07 AM
A Hazy Marriage: Don't Get Married or Have Kids Without Love and Money
The story of a girl from Wuhan left me heartbroken. Her family was struggling to make ends meet, and last year they didn't even have enough food to eat. When she asked her mom for 4 yuan to buy instant noodles, her mom simply hung up the phone. This year, her dad borrowed 1,000 yuan from her, leaving her anxious and worried. Luckily, he paid her back eventually.
Her story reminded me of many people who drift through life without true love or financial stability, yet still pass on the pressure to their loved ones. Why do they do this? Is it due to societal pressure or their own ignorance?
I think everyone should reflect on their own lives and ask themselves if they're truly happy and fulfilled. Do they have enough love and financial stability to support their life? If not, why get married and have kids?
Marriage and having children are significant life decisions that require careful consideration and preparation. Without love and financial stability, it's best not to get married or have kids. Not only will this lead to personal suffering, but it will also pass on unnecessary pressure to the next generation.
Therefore, a hazy marriage is unacceptable. We should strive for true love and financial stability to create a happy and fulfilling family.







