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Jul 6, 2026, 08:03 AM
How to Break Down a Girl's Last Line of Psychological Defense
Here is the translation:
I decided to make another big move, this time taking the girl I met on Little Red Book on a business trip to Shanghai.
That day, she wore casual clothes, light-colored overalls and a white T-shirt, paired with a pair of small white shoes. From the high-speed rail station to the hotel, she smiled along the way, but her hands kept clutching her bag, looking a bit tense.
When we arrived at the hotel, it was almost 12 o'clock. As we entered the room, she stood at the door, her eyes darting around... At this moment, I smiled and said, "Come in first, put down your luggage. You sit down, and I'll get you a bottle of water."
She nodded, still looking a bit awkward... I didn't rush to get close to her, but first opened the curtains to brighten up the room, adjusted the air conditioning temperature, and then handed her a bottle of water. As I handed her the water, I lightly touched her back, naturally guiding her to "sit on the bed and rest for a while, don't stand there. We've walked a long way today."
She nodded and sat down, her shoulders relaxing slightly, but still looking a bit uneasy. I didn't sit down right away, but said, "You wait here for a minute, I'll go take care of something." I took the room card and went to the front desk to change to a different room. When I came back, I told her to grab her things and move to the new room. Those 10 minutes were really important. The more you take care of her like a reliable big brother, the faster her defenses will drop.
After we settled into the new room, she was clearly less tense. I sat across from her, keeping a distance, and smiled, saying, "Relax, I'm not a bad person. Are you hungry? Let's go eat something first."
She nodded shyly, saying, "I'm starving." After eating, I said, "Later, I have work to take care of. After I'm done, we can go for a walk along the Bund. You can rest at the hotel, and if you're bored, you can come out and take a walk around. Don't go too far, and remember to send me your location, so I don't worry about you."
She nodded obediently, seeming to relax a bit more. I casually touched her head, and around 9 o'clock, I finally finished my work. After drinking a bit with clients, I was slightly tipsy, and with a hint of fatigue, I returned to the hotel and knocked on the door.
When she saw me come back, she was happy: "You're finally back... Did you drink?" I smiled, putting down my phone, and first rubbed her head, walking to the bed and sitting down: "Yeah, I had a couple of drinks with clients, and I'm a bit dizzy. Come here, let me hug you."
She hesitated for a moment, but slowly leaned in. At that moment, I clearly felt that she was both hesitant and expectant. As I hugged her tightly, she smelled of a faint fragrance. She grasped my clothes, slightly resisting, and I let go, saying, "I'll go take a shower, I'm a bit tired."
After showering, I wrapped myself in a towel, bare-chested, and came out to see her browsing Douyin. She looked at me and pursed her lips, saying, "Your body is really good, you must work out a lot." I smiled, sitting on the bed and rubbing my hair: "You should take a shower too, the water temperature is just right."
She came back to her senses, looking flustered, and rushed into the bathroom, both clumsy and adorable. Later, I leaned on the bed, not knowing how I fell asleep. When I woke up, it was already 1 o'clock. She got up to drink water and turned around, whispering, "I disturbed you..."
I got up and handed her a bottle of water, and after she finished drinking, I pulled her into my arms, pinning her down, and smiled, saying, "Now it's 1 o'clock, and you woke me up. You have to take responsibility, right?"
She looked dazed and shy: "How do I take responsibility?" I didn't answer, directly leaning in to kiss her. This time, there was no probing, and I felt her body tremble slightly due to tension and expectation.
As we kissed more passionately, her breathing became disordered, and she began to respond actively, her hands wrapped around my neck, her bathrobe almost completely open. I stopped, propping myself up, and looked at her gently, saying, "Wait..."
She opened her dazed eyes, looking puzzled and uneasy, whispering, "What's wrong?" I lightly stroked her cheek, brushing her hair behind her ear, and said seriously, "I want you to give yourself to me without any worries. I don't want you to regret it tomorrow. It's late now, so you can think about it slowly. If you're really ready, come find me yourself, okay?"
After saying that, I turned over and lay down beside her, intentionally keeping a distance, holding her hand lightly. At that moment, my heart was racing too, but I knew that the more stable I was, the more I would win. The room was quiet for a while, and she shifted positions, lying there for about a minute or two, hesitating.
I didn't rush her, using my thumb to gently caress the back of her hand, giving her a sense of security. Finally, she leaned in, hugging me, her small hands slowly turning my face towards her, and she kissed me gently, then more boldly, her hands wrapped around my neck, her body pressed against mine. At that moment, I clearly felt that her worries had completely disappeared.
In the end, I must say that attraction is not about forcing someone, but about letting her choose to come to you actively. When you give her enough security, and you have the right framework and gentleness, she will naturally open up completely.




