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I still remember when I was with my ex-girlfriend, I had around 200,000 yuan in savings and my monthly salary was around 10,000 yuan. But I told her I had no savings and my monthly salary was only 6,000 yuan. Looking back, this might have been a turning point in our relationship. Later, her mother suddenly fell ill and needed surgery. The surgery cost around 80,000 yuan, and she and her family were in a panic. I knew I had the ability to solve this problem, but I still didn't use my savings. My reason was simple: I was afraid she wouldn't be able to pay me back. Her monthly salary was only around 4,000 yuan, her parents were farmers, and she had a younger brother in college. When we broke up, she told me to take good care of myself. From her eyes, I saw that she knew I had the ability to solve her mother's surgery fee problem. Maybe she had noticed the savings on my phone on some previous day. Looking back, I think my decision at the time might have been wrong. Maybe if I had been honest with her and told her my true financial situation, our relationship might have been better. Maybe she would have trusted me more and relied on me more. But now everything is already in the past. Her mother should have passed away three years ago, and I'm still thinking about my decision at the time. That's just how life is - once you miss something, it's gone.