Davidzhu

I often hear friends complaining that they like a woman very much, do their best to treat her well, but end up being dumped unceremoniously. What's behind this phenomenon? Today, I want to share a 'radical' view that might be disputed by many, but I'll say it anyway. When you treat a woman with a casual attitude, she'll quickly fall in love with you. But when you genuinely like her and treat her exceptionally well, you'll be dumped like trash. Why is that? I think the reason lies in the fact that when you treat a woman casually, you exhibit a carefree and nonchalant attitude. You don't overinvest in her feelings, nor do you overcommit. In this state, you appear cool and attractive to women, who are often drawn to this vibe. However, when you genuinely like a woman and treat her exceptionally well, your behavior becomes hesitant and timid. You overinvest in her feelings and overcommit. You become like a bootlicker, constantly trying to please her. In this state, you appear ridiculous and inferior, and women often find you cheap and worthless. So, when you genuinely like a woman, be careful not to overdo it. Maintain a carefree and nonchalant attitude, and don't overinvest in her feelings. Only then can you truly attract her and build a real relationship.