Davidzhu

I've always felt that many people have a habit of wanting to spend their hard-earned money on others. They think that by buying things for others, they can gain recognition and gratitude. However, this behavior not only makes them poor but also causes them to lose themselves. When you use your hard-earned money to buy things for others that you wouldn't even buy for yourself, you're essentially telling yourself that your value is less than others. You're using your money to pay for someone else's desires, rather than your own happiness. I want to ask you, have you ever thought about why your money should be used to satisfy someone else's desires? Have you ever thought about why your hard-earned money should be used to buy things you don't even want? Have you ever thought about why your happiness should be based on someone else's approval? Loving others is wonderful, but when you love others more than you love yourself, you'll suffer the consequences. Because your love turns into sacrifice, and your giving turns into debt. You start to feel like you must give to others, but they don't need to give to you. So, someone else's desires are not your burden. You don't need to pay for others; you need to pay for yourself. You need to use your money to buy your own happiness, not someone else's desires.