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I recently met a 25-year-old woman from Tianjin who shared with me her life's shadow, a heart-wrenching story. Growing up, her parents' relationship was discordant, with frequent quarrels and even domestic violence. These traumatic experiences left her with deep emotional scars, affecting her personality and emotional development. What's even more infuriating is that her parents would claim to love her, yet never provide actual support or care. They would even subject her to emotional manipulation, making her feel responsible for their divorce. This invisible violence left her feeling extremely lonely and helpless. Through our conversation, I felt a complex mix of emotions. Some parents neglect their children, while others remarry after divorce, but cases like this, where they claim to love their child yet inflict domestic violence and economic neglect, are simply nauseating. Such behavior not only harms the child but also damages the parents' own dignity and values. I hope that through this story, I can appeal to all parents to understand that loving and caring for their children is not just about words, but about actions. Children need care, support, and understanding, not fake love and harm.