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Gift giving is an essential part of our lives, especially in professional and social settings. Many people think that gift giving is just about giving money or expensive items, but that's not the case. Gift giving is an art that requires strategy and skill to achieve the desired effect. The first unspoken rule of gift giving is to establish relationships before seeking favors. Maintain good relationships and communication in your daily life, don't wait until you need something. This means building a strong network of relationships that can help you when you need it. The second rule is to build a connection before giving a gift. When dealing with strangers, it's best to have a mutual acquaintance introduce you. Giving gifts to strangers without a connection can be seen as insincere. This is because strangers lack trust, and a middleman is needed to establish a connection. The third rule is to show sincerity and gradually deepen the relationship. Test the waters first, and then deepen the relationship. If the relationship isn't established, expensive gifts can be rejected. This means you need to build relationships step by step, rather than giving expensive gifts all at once. The fourth rule is to tailor your gift to the recipient's interests and needs. A gift that's expensive but not thoughtful is less effective. This means you need to understand the recipient's interests and hobbies and give a suitable gift. The fifth rule is to be low-key and humble when giving gifts. Schedule a time to meet, give gifts privately, and avoid showing off. When asking for favors, be even more humble. This means being modest and cautious, without being too flashy. The sixth rule is to pay attention to key figures. Don't just focus on the person in charge; build relationships with people who can influence the outcome. This means understanding who the key players are and building good relationships with them. The seventh rule is that gift giving is a sign of goodwill, not a guarantee of success. Receiving a gift doesn't mean the favor will be granted. Be prepared for the outcome before asking for help. This means having a psychological preparation that gift giving may not lead to the desired outcome. The eighth rule is to respect the recipient's time and privacy after giving a gift. Don't rush or pressure them, and keep the matter private after it's resolved. This means respecting the recipient's time and not pushing or talking excessively. The ninth rule is that the value of a gift lies not only in its price but also in its thoughtfulness. It's better to give a unique, high-quality gift that the recipient likes, rather than just focusing on the price. This means giving gifts that have meaning and value, rather than just focusing on the price. The tenth rule is that gift giving is a test of emotional intelligence, not just a matter of money. Finding the right person, choosing the right gift, and timing it correctly is more important than the price. This means using emotional intelligence and strategy when giving gifts, rather than just relying on money.