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On social media, we often see various interactions and exchanges. Sometimes, we notice that some men in Shanghai will ask a woman to give them a like before making contact. This phenomenon is particularly common in Shanghai. So, why do Shanghai men need to get likes before making contact? Perhaps we can start by looking at the social culture and psychological needs of Shanghai men. Shanghai men are often considered to be open, confident, and ambitious. They often want to show off their charm and attractiveness in social situations. Getting likes makes them feel recognized and validated, which gives them the confidence to contact women. At the same time, Shanghai men may also want to use likes to test a woman's interest and intentions. If a woman gives a like, the man may think that she is interested in him and will have the courage to contact her. This strategy can help men avoid the embarrassment of being rejected and increase the chances of a successful contact. However, this behavior can also be seen as an immature social strategy. Because getting likes does not necessarily represent a woman's true intentions. A woman may just be polite or curious and give a like. Therefore, Shanghai men should be cautious with this strategy and avoid relying too much on likes to judge a woman's interest.