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Sisters, today I want to share with you a piece of marriage advice that may make you feel uncomfortable, but I have to say it. When getting married, you must avoid families where the husband's mother suffered a lot. Why do I say that? Because if you marry into a painful family, you may become the next victim. I know many women often overlook the importance of family background when choosing a partner. We often think that as long as two people love each other, they can overcome any difficulty. However, that's not the case. Family background can have a profound impact on your married life and even determine whether your marriage is happy. If your partner comes from a painful family, he may bring that pain into your marriage. For example, if his parents often quarrel, he may bring that conflict pattern into your relationship. If his family members lack communication and understanding, he may bring that communication style into your marriage. So, sisters, if you're looking for a partner, never overlook the importance of family background. Be brave and ask your partner about his family situation, understand the relationships between his family members. Don't think you can change him or his family; in fact, you may be changed by his family background. Finally, sisters, I hope you can learn from my advice. Marriage is a big deal in life, and you must not ignore the long-term consequences of marriage just because of a momentary love impulse.