Señorita Mafiana

Lately, I've come across questions, especially those related to sex, that leave me feeling frustrated. These questions seem simple, as if a single answer could solve the issue, but in reality, they expose a multitude of misconceptions and knowledge gaps about sex. For instance, someone might ask, "I've been moving for a long time, but I don't ejaculate," or "She doesn't orgasm." On the surface, these questions appear straightforward, but they actually involve our overall understanding of sex. We don't know what to expect from sex; we can only gather information from scattered sources and piece together a version. This pieced-together version is often incorrect because our standards for sex usually come from movies and imagination rather than actual experience. These standards create unrealistic expectations about sex, leading to significant deviations in judging our own and our partner's status. I'm writing this article not to criticize those who ask questions but to highlight the state of our cognitive vacuum regarding sex. We lack systematic sex education, relying on imagination, erotic works, and scattered information to piece together our understanding. This results in a shallow understanding of sex, filled with misconceptions. Therefore, I'm often frustrated with these types of questions. I can't provide an accurate solution because the issue isn't about technique, but rather the entire sex knowledge system. I can't fill in all the gaps at once. However, I can recommend some resources, such as my masturbation course (available for both men and women) or my weekly live Q&A sessions. These might help fill in some gaps in your sex knowledge and address common issues. In conclusion, we need more sex education and accurate sex knowledge. Only then can we truly understand sex and avoid common misconceptions and problems.