涂涂姐

Recently, I met an interesting girl from Fujian who was only 19 years old but had already had a lot of dating experience. She told me that she wanted to continue a long-term relationship, but was facing a lot of troubles. As someone who has been through similar experiences, I decided to chat with her and understand what kind of problems she was facing. The girl told me that she and her boyfriend had been together for over a year and had a great relationship, but recently, some problems had arisen. Her boyfriend always wanted to do things with her that she didn't want to do, such as watching porn or playing sex games. The girl thought these things were strange and uncomfortable, but her boyfriend said they were normal and that many people did them. The girl was torn and didn't know what to do. She didn't want to lose her boyfriend, but she also didn't want to do things she didn't want to do. She asked me what she should do, and I told her that the first thing to do was to communicate. She should have a good talk with her boyfriend and explain her feelings and needs. Maybe her boyfriend didn't know how she felt, or maybe he just wanted to satisfy his own desires. Secondly, the girl needed to clarify her bottom line. What things was she willing to accept, and what things was she not willing to accept? She shouldn't give up her principles and values just because of her boyfriend's requests. Finally, if communication didn't work, the girl should also consider ending the relationship. After all, her own happiness was the most important thing.