Mugou

A few days ago, I came across a girl from my district on Soul, with a very ordinary profile picture and a one-sentence bio. But I didn't rush to greet her or ask her age, job, or where she lived. Instead, I sent her an emoji related to her signature. She replied, and I naturally started chatting with her about why she wrote that sentence. One topic led to another, and within twenty minutes, we were already talking about sports and travel. Many people fail at chatting because they're too eager to get information. Girls receive countless messages like 'Are you there?' 'How old are you?' 'Where are you from?' every day, and they easily ignore them. This kind of chatting will only make the other person feel like you're too casual and not worth having a deeper conversation with. The way to keep the conversation going is to build on the information she actively shares, rather than constantly asking questions. It's like playing ping-pong – you need to give the other person a comfortable rhythm, and she'll be willing to keep playing. Chatting is also an interactive process, and every sentence you say should be a response to the other person, not just a simple question. So, if you want to chat successfully on social media, the first thing you need to do is change your chatting style. Don't keep asking boring questions; instead, try to understand the other person's interests and hobbies. That way, your conversations will become more interesting and in-depth.