
Señorita Mafiana
@MissMafiana
Jun 20, 2026, 03:11 AM
The Muscle Tension Pattern of Masturbation: Why I Couldn't Feel Anything During Sex?
As a woman, I was once deeply entrenched in the world of masturbation. When I masturbated, I would subconsciously tense up my buttocks, tighten my thigh muscles, and even arch my back and thrust my hips. These muscle contractions would make the pleasure incredibly intense, allowing me to experience short but explosive orgasms in the short term. I was deeply fascinated by this pattern, and I can even say that I had grown accustomed to this feeling.
However, when I had sex with my partner, I found that I couldn't feel anything. Why was this the case? I started thinking, and I realized that it was because the position of having my legs open and lying flat during sex made it difficult to achieve the same muscle contractions as when I masturbated. This difference left me feeling confused and disappointed.
I began to realize that masturbation and sex are two completely different experiences. Masturbation is about one's own pleasure and satisfaction, while sex is about connection and communication with one's partner. Although I was used to the masturbation pattern, I needed to learn how to adapt to the new pattern of sex, how to create new pleasure and experiences with my partner.
I decided to try new positions and techniques, searching for new pleasure points. Through communication and experimentation with my partner, I began to discover new experiences and pleasure. Although it took time and practice, I came to realize that sex is not just about sexual satisfaction, but also about connection and expression of love with one's partner.
Now, I no longer rely on the masturbation pattern. During sex, I actively try new positions and techniques, searching for new pleasure points. Communication and connection with my partner make me feel more satisfied and happy. I finally understand that sex is not just about sexual satisfaction, but also about the experience of love and connection.



