Mugou

On Soul, a social platform for strangers, I've had the chance to chat with many people, and each conversation has been a new experience. But one thing I've come to realize is that the rhythm of a conversation is crucial. Many people think that the quality of a conversation depends on how interesting the topic is, but I believe that what truly determines the quality of a conversation is not the topic, but the rhythm. One evening, I was chatting with a girl, and her responses were getting slower and slower. Instead of sending her message after message, I decided to end the conversation, saying 'Get some rest, let's continue another time.' The next day, she actually initiated a conversation with me. This made me realize that ending a conversation at the right time can leave a better impression than trying to keep the conversation going. Many people worry that the conversation will be cut off, so they keep trying to come up with new topics, which often leads to awkwardness. But the truth is, everyone has their own life, and you don't need to exhaust a conversation. A truly comfortable relationship is not about constantly sending messages, but about looking forward to the next conversation. I think this is because we're all too used to responding quickly, replying quickly, and ending quickly. But chatting isn't a race, and we don't need to strive for the fastest response time. Instead, we should enjoy the process of chatting and each other's company. So, if you're like me and want to find a truly comfortable relationship, remember that ending a conversation at the right time is important. Don't be afraid of a conversation being cut off, and don't keep trying to come up with new topics. Instead, enjoy the process of chatting and each other's company.