Mugou

I still remember a girl I met on Soul, who was initially quiet. Instead of constantly sharing my own opinions, I asked her about her interests and asked, "Why do you like this?" She started with a single sentence and gradually opened up. I realized that once someone starts sharing their experiences, the conversation becomes more engaging. Many people think about what they can say to attract others, but it's more important to make the other person want to talk. Girls don't like people who can talk a lot, but rather those who make them feel comfortable during conversations. When she feels like you're truly listening, rather than waiting for your turn to speak, the conversation becomes smoother. I think this is why some people can easily chat with strangers, while others find it difficult. It's not because they're good at talking, but because they know how to make the other person feel comfortable. They don't rush to express their opinions, but instead listen patiently to the other person's thoughts. So, if you want to make conversations more enjoyable, try to make the other person want to talk. Ask them questions, listen to their answers, and show your interest and care. You'll find that the conversation becomes more engaging, and the relationship becomes closer.