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@amuoplm1
Jul 18, 2026, 10:00 AM
The Dilemma of Overseas Shopping for International Students: A Catch-22 of Love and Survival
As a master's student studying in Suzhou, I initially thought that I could earn some tuition and living expenses through overseas shopping. However, things didn't go as planned, and I not only got fined over 200,000 yuan but also had to face the sudden illness of my mother. With her surgery scheduled for the end of the year, and the surgical fees exceeding 100,000 yuan, I felt an unprecedented sense of pressure and helplessness.
In this situation, I began to yearn for someone I could rely on, someone who could help me get through the tough times. Of course, I was also aware that I shouldn't expect anyone to help me unconditionally. So, when I expressed my wish on social media, I joked that if someone was willing to lend a hand, I would definitely return the favor with my 36 stratagems and 72 variations. Although it was a joke, my deep-down longing was genuine.
I know that this longing may be seen as a desire for love or help, but to me, it's more of a desire for survival and hope. In this unfamiliar city, facing enormous living pressures, I need a shoulder to lean on, a partner to share my joys and sorrows. Although I won't ask for the moon, I believe that if there's someone who's willing to help me wholeheartedly, I'll definitely find a way to return the favor.





