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Blind dating is not about romance, it's about projects - if you're slow, you'll lose everything. This is the iron law we must remember in the blind dating market. For any girl you meet through family introductions or blind dating channels, remember one thing: be simple, direct, and bold in your approach. Don't be slow, or you'll miss your chance and be out of the game. Why is blind dating a different species from free love? The other person is looking to get married, and they don't give you a 'let's start as friends' buffer period. If a girl keeps emphasizing 'let's start as friends and see how it goes,' it means one of two things: she's not into you, or she's looking for someone better. If you encounter this situation, don't waste your time. Use a standard phrase to let her know: 'My intention from the start was to pursue a romantic relationship. I don't need more friends, and adults don't need to make unnecessary friends.' The subtext is clear: first, I'm not interested in being just friends; second, my attitude is clear; third, don't waste my time. Secondly, if you've met more than twice, you must make a bold move. The idea that 'time will tell' is the biggest scam in blind dating. Why must you act fast? First, if she's not into you, she won't agree to a second date; second, if she's willing to meet you more than twice, it's a sign that she's waiting for you to take the lead. But don't wait for her to make the first move. In blind dating, it's never the girl who takes the initiative. The correct approach is to gradually increase physical contact: hold her hand when crossing the street, and if she doesn't resist, take her hand; if she doesn't resist, try hugging. Take it one step at a time, and if she clearly rejects you, back off. Finally, the third iron law: after meeting more than three times, ask her to make a choice. Use the universal phrase: 'We've met a few times, do you think we should develop this into a romantic relationship or just be friends?' The two options are clear. If it's possible, great; if not, there's no need to waste more time. You must know that when you take the initiative and make your intentions clear, you've already taken control. In the blind dating market, girls often have age anxiety, but you can overcome this anxiety by continuously improving yourself. If she finds excuses to drag her feet or hesitates about continuing, the final decision is still in your hands.