Mugou

Since joining Soul, I've noticed a fascinating phenomenon. Some people with ordinary profile pictures can still attract many chat requests, while others with excellent profiles often end their conversations quickly. This got me thinking - what makes people want to continue chatting with someone? Later, I realized that people tend to remember how they felt when chatting with you, rather than what you look like. If every interaction is light-hearted, responsive, and humorous, the other person will naturally want to continue. However, if the conversation is always about proving oneself or comparing oneself, even the best conditions can be overwhelming. Social interactions are essentially about exchanging emotions, not resumes. We're often taught to strive for excellence and have good conditions, but in social situations, comfort is often more attractive than excellence. People want to interact with those who make them feel comfortable, not just those with good conditions. I have a friend whose profile picture is ordinary, but her chatting style is extremely interesting and always makes people feel comfortable. Although her conditions aren't particularly excellent, she still attracts many people. On the other hand, I also know some friends with excellent conditions, but their chatting style always makes people feel pressured, and as a result, they're often single. Therefore, attraction in social interactions depends not only on your conditions but also on your ability to make the other person feel comfortable. To succeed in social interactions, you must learn how to make yourself interesting and how to make others feel comfortable.