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On Sunday, a family of three went to their grandfather's house for dinner. Before the meal, the little sister was playing with her 3-year-old nephew in the living room. The child was hugging his aunt's neck and trying to reach into her clothes to breastfeed. The aunt quickly opened the child's hand and said, 'Go find your mom if you want to breastfeed!' The child replied, 'Dad can breastfeed, why can't I?' This question stunned everyone present. This behavior and question from a 3-year-old child may make many parents feel embarrassed and at a loss. In fact, this phenomenon is not uncommon in many families. So, how should parents respond to this issue? First, we need to understand the reason behind the child's behavior. It's possible that the child hasn't fully understood social norms and gender differences, or that the child is exploring their own body and gender identity. Secondly, parents need to remain calm and patient, and not simply scold or mock the child. This approach not only fails to solve the problem but may also lead to the child developing negative emotions and self-defense mechanisms. Instead, parents should try to explain in simple and gentle language why dad can't breastfeed, and why only mom can. At the same time, parents need to tell the child that their body is their own and needs to be protected and respected. Finally, parents need to pay attention to the child's personality and behavioral development, and address any potential issues in a timely manner. By doing so, parents can help the child develop a healthy gender identity and social norms awareness, avoiding unhealthy sexual behavior and relationships in the future.