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Have you ever had the experience of chatting with someone of the opposite sex, initially just because of work or a hobby, but as you continued chatting, you found yourself getting used to talking to them and even starting to depend on the feeling? If you frequently chat with someone, just a week of chatting will make them a habit for you. You'll start looking forward to their messages, their replies, and the feeling of chatting with them. A month of chatting and you'll be dependent on them. Even if it's a stranger, it's easy to get hooked. You'll depend on them, get used to them, and eventually like them. You'll start imagining scenarios where you meet them, imagining what it's like to be with them. The more you chat, the more familiar you become. The more familiar you are, the more you want to meet. Once you meet, you'll want to own them. This feeling is strange, yet real. You'll start questioning yourself, wondering why you're like this, why you're so dependent on a chatting partner. In fact, this is a natural psychological response. When we have frequent interactions with someone, our brain starts producing a dependent response. This response makes us feel comfortable, safe, and like we belong. However, dependence is a double-edged sword. It can bring us happiness, but also pain. When we're overly dependent on someone, we lose ourselves, our judgment, and our decision-making power. So, how do we avoid this dependent response? How do we maintain a healthy chatting relationship? The answer is simple: keep a distance, maintain independence, and keep your sense of self.