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Many people have tried to quit porn, but ultimately ended in failure. Why is quitting porn so difficult? Why does each failure make us feel even more frustrated? Quitting porn is doomed to fail because it goes against human nature. Humans are creatures driven by desire, and desire is what propels us forward. However, quitting porn requires us to suppress our desires, going against our instincts. This is like an inner struggle, a tug-of-war between desire and reason. Each failure reinforces the negative thought pattern in our subconscious that we are powerless when faced with desire. This negative thought pattern gradually accumulates until we truly believe we are incapable. As a result, we start to doubt our abilities and our worth. This self-doubt makes it even harder for us to quit porn because we have lost confidence. So, how can we truly quit porn? The answer is, don't quit porn. Don't try to suppress your desires, but instead learn how to express them healthily. Expressing desires healthily doesn't mean indulging in them, but rather learning how to satisfy them without harming ourselves and others. Some people try to abstain for a few days, only to end up masturbating until midnight. Is this really quitting porn, or is it just teasing ourselves? This approach not only won't help us quit porn but will also make us more dependent on masturbation. Masturbation is not a wrong behavior, but when we over-rely on it, it becomes a problem. So, is this really your goal? Are you trying to prove your self-control through quitting porn, or are you trying to satisfy your desires through quitting porn? Regardless of your goal, it's essential to understand your desires and learn how to express them healthily.