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@andr_cai
Jul 25, 2026, 06:00 AM
The Survival Dilemma of a 21-Year-Old Shanghai Girl: Debt, Pressure, and Seeking Help
I recently came across a heart-wrenching story about a 21-year-old Shanghai girl who is struggling to cope with her family situation and financial pressure. After her parents' divorce, her mother not only left the family with debt but also abandoned her and her brother. She had a part-time job, but the poor working conditions added to her stress.
With a series of expenses looming, including wisdom teeth extraction, surgery, tuition, and living costs, she is now struggling to pay even the 500 yuan monthly medication fee. The weight of her responsibilities is suffocating her, and her original family is unable to provide any support or help. In this desperate situation, she has turned to us for assistance and support.
This story has made me think deeply about why so many young people face such enormous life pressures. Why can't their families and society provide them with sufficient support and help? These questions are worth exploring and discussing.





