Mugou

Recently, I discovered a huge secret. If you can't attract the other person while chatting, no matter how good your chatting skills are, it's all in vain. Many guys spend a lot of time studying chatting skills, only to end up being treated as a tool. Why is that? Because the woman wasn't strongly attracted to you from the beginning, and chatting is just a way to 'maintain' the relationship, not 'upgrade' it. I've analyzed countless chatting records for my students and found three most common points where attractiveness is lacking. The first point is that the photo or display picture is too ordinary, and the first impression determines 90% of the attractiveness. The second point is that there's no emotional fluctuation in the chat, and it's just asking questions and showing concern. The third point is that the sense of self-worth is too weak, and confidence is not just about saying it, but about accumulating small victories in daily life. A true master can often make the other person's emotions surge in just a few sentences, and even actively ask questions. They don't need to be good at flirting; they just need to get the 'attraction' part right, and the chat will naturally go smoothly. So, how can we improve our attractiveness and become a master who makes the other person actively ask questions? Firstly, the photo or display picture is the key to the first impression. How can we take a photo that makes people's eyes light up? How can we showcase our lifestyle and interests? These are all worth thinking about. Secondly, creating emotional fluctuations in the chat is very important. How can we make the other person experience emotional fluctuations through chatting? How can we make the other person feel our value through our language and attitude? Finally, improving our sense of self-worth is a long-term process. How can we accumulate small victories in daily life to boost our confidence? How can we increase our sense of self-worth through our achievements and experiences? These all require long-term effort and accumulation.