Davidzhu

The more perfect your life is, the closer you are to disaster! This isn't a curse, it's the way of the world. One person can't simultaneously have a wife, wealth, children, a good job, and a long life. The natural order of things doesn't allow for anything to be truly complete. As soon as something becomes complete, it means it's coming to an end. So when your life suddenly becomes smooth sailing and problem-free, that's when you should be careful. On the other hand, if your life is still chaotic and you're dealing with small problems and annoyances, that's actually something to be grateful for. These little troubles are helping you balance your fate and preventing you from crashing and burning. Life is built on top of one problem after another. You can't have complete peace, and life is inevitably a series of problems: either you're struggling financially, or your body is giving you trouble; either your kids are rebelling, or you and your spouse are cheating on each other or having a cold war. From a macro perspective, this is actually the safest time for you. You're already used to problems and know how to deal with them. So, there's no need to strive for a perfect life.