Davidzhu

Lately, I've been dealing with a really frustrating issue: my little cousin has been living with me for several months, and she doesn't seem to have any intention of leaving. What's worse is that she doesn't work and expects me to do her laundry, including her underwear! I really don't know what to do. First, I thought I should have a good talk with her. Maybe she's not aware of how her behavior is affecting me, and I can try to communicate with her and tell her how I feel. But then again, I'm worried that this might hurt her self-esteem and even make our relationship worse. On the other hand, I'm also considering putting some pressure on her, making her feel like she needs to leave my place. For example, I could tell her that I need some space or that I need her help with some household chores. But this might make her feel like I'm kicking her out, which could make her even less willing to leave. I really don't know what to do. I hope someone can give me some advice on how to handle this situation. Is there a way to make my cousin want to leave on her own? I think this might be a pretty common problem that many people have faced. So, I hope my experience can help others, and I also hope you can give me some advice.