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Do you really know how to read people, or are you always being deceived by appearances? We often think we can see through others, but in reality, we are often blinded by appearances. We see people's outward appearance, words, and actions, but do we really understand them? Recently, I read a very interesting book that teaches you how to read people through 'things', to see through lies and understand motivations, and to stay awake in social interactions. This book won the American Psychological Association's Annual Contribution Award and was rated as one of the best books of the year by New Scientist. The book mentions that many seemingly profound abilities to read people are actually just a result of not knowing how to observe. We are often constrained by our own biases and assumptions, unable to truly see others. Through this book, I learned how to observe people's details, how to see through their lies and motivations. I still remember an example mentioned in the book, a salesperson who can always persuade customers to buy things they don't need. It turns out that he didn't rely on his eloquence, but rather on observing the customer's behavior and words, finding their weaknesses, and then persuading them in a targeted way. Through this book, I realized that reading people is not an easy thing. It requires us to have observational power, analytical power, and critical thinking. We need to learn how to observe people's details, how to see through their lies and motivations, and how to stay awake in social interactions. If you want to improve your ability to read people and be more confident in social interactions, I highly recommend this book. It will teach you how to read people through 'things', to see through lies, to understand motivations, and to stay awake in social interactions.