Davidzhu

I once heard a story from a friend whose wife cheated on him, but instead of confronting her immediately, he chose to pretend he didn't know. This decision seemed strange at first, but it was actually quite smart. Why? Firstly, pretending not to know can help you avoid impulsive reactions. You won't do something you might regret later, like getting into a fight or filing for divorce. At the same time, you can use this opportunity to calm down and think about how to handle the situation. Secondly, pretending not to know can help you take advantage of this woman. Yes, you didn't mishear me - I said 'take advantage.' If your wife cheated on you, it means she had unmet needs. So, you can use this opportunity to fulfill her needs, or rather, use her cheating partner to fulfill your own needs. I know this idea sounds strange, but it's actually quite effective. My friend did just that - he pretended not to know about his wife's cheating and instead used the opportunity to let her cheating partner help with household expenses and childcare. Of course, this method isn't suitable for everyone, but it can at least serve as a reference.