
Señorita Mafiana
@MissMafiana
Jul 30, 2026, 02:14 PM
Instinct and Intimacy: The Subtle Relationship Between the Two
Having sex can indeed create a sense of intimacy, especially when you relax afterwards and share things you wouldn't normally talk about. It's a wonderful feeling, as if the distance between two people suddenly narrows, and their hearts draw closer.
However, this intimacy comes too quickly, and you don't need to truly understand each other for it to happen. This rapid establishment of intimacy can feel strange, as if it has occurred without genuine understanding and communication.
So, in a purely physical relationship, two people can experience strong feelings of intimacy with very little actual understanding. This phenomenon raises questions: Do we really understand our partners, or are we just stuck on a physical level of intimacy?
It's only when we want to develop a romantic relationship that we may discover that the intimacy and familiarity we feel are actually limited to the physical level. We need genuine communication and understanding to build a truly intimate relationship.




