I've met many star-chasing girls on Weibo, and they have a unique kind of innocence and vitality that makes me, a 30-year-old man, feel ashamed. They have a natural trust in their fellow fans who share the same idol, as if being fans of the same celebrity automatically makes them kindred spirits.
I had a few friends come over to my place to watch a concert, and they stayed with me since the hotels around here were fully booked. Their carefree and vibrant youth made me feel a sense of freedom and relaxation that I hadn't experienced in a long time.
To be honest, although I'm only 30, I still feel like I've lost my youthful energy compared to them. Looking at their smiling faces and sparkling eyes, I couldn't help but think that I've already grown old.
I think star-chasing girls are much better than those who only know how to blindly follow the crowd. Especially during summer break, when there are many concerts and students have a lot of free time, and ticket prices are relatively low, I was thinking of trying to score tickets to the Phoenix Legend concert... but I couldn't get any. I really couldn't get any.
During the summer break, I found that Weibo is the best place to go on dates! I recently made plans with a freshman girl to meet up in my city next week to attend a concert, and we're both super excited.
However, I've noticed that people on Weibo are getting more and more shameless. You need to pay for a membership to display the Apple logo, and you need to pay again to hide the Android logo - it's just ridiculous!
I want to know, what are your experiences with Weibo dating? Is it the best deal, or is it just embarrassing?
I think Weibo dating should be free and casual, without being restricted by labels and membership fees.
So, how do you feel about Weibo dating and the shameless behavior? Share your thoughts in the comments!
On the social app Soul, I've made an interesting observation: the proportion of single moms seems to be much higher than on other platforms. Every time I go on a date, I curiously ask them: why did you get divorced? But I stopped asking because almost every answer was the same: domestic violence.
I remember asking a girl why she got divorced, and she told me it was because of her husband's domestic violence. Another girl said it was because of her mother-in-law's domestic violence. It seemed that no matter what, the woman was always the victim. This pattern shocked and saddened me.
Today, I added another girl, and out of habit, I guessed: was it because of domestic violence? She sent me several shocked expressions: how did you know!!! I felt her shock and fear, as if I had uncovered a wound in her heart.
I started thinking, why do single moms on Soul have such a high proportion? Is it because this platform is more attractive to single mothers? Or is domestic violence more prevalent in Chinese society? I don't know the answer, but I know that these women's stories deserve to be heard and respected.
Through these stories, I saw a silent cost. These women were forced to endure the harm and shame of domestic violence, but their courage and resilience made them stand up and start new lives.