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Jun 26, 2026, 02:48 AM
Observations on Bizarre Dates on Social Media: Are Chinese Women's EQs Really Getting Lower?
Today, I came across an interesting observation on a social media platform. A girl who called herself 'Little Fairy' was chatting with a guy, and the guy, following the usual Chinese politeness, complimented Little Fairy's outfit. However, Little Fairy responded by saying that her outfit didn't look good, and the guy bluntly expressed his true thoughts, saying that her outfit was actually quite ugly. As a result, Little Fairy immediately blocked the guy.
This story sparked my thoughts: Yu Minhong once said that Chinese women's EQs and IQs are getting lower and lower. This phenomenon is particularly evident on social media platforms. Many girls on these platforms are extremely picky and capricious, and they often block people at the slightest provocation.
I think there are multiple reasons for this phenomenon. Firstly, the anonymity of social media makes it easier for people to express their true thoughts, but it also makes them more vulnerable to hurt. Secondly, Chinese women are often taught to be elegant and polite in traditional culture, but this teaching is often ignored on social media.
Finally, I want to say that social media dating observations do reflect the changes in Chinese women's EQs and IQs. However, we shouldn't be overly pessimistic. After all, social media is just a platform, and real life is what truly matters.

