我的约会日记

My recent dating experience has taught me a valuable lesson: being too blunt isn't always the best approach. We met on a chat app, and the conversation was going well, but things quickly escalated to discussing a short-term relationship after only a few messages. She agreed, leading me to believe she was an open-minded and adventurous international student who knew how to live in the moment. However, I made a fatal mistake – I sent her explicit photos right after adding her on WeChat. The result? She blocked me, leaving me to laugh at my own foolishness: some things are better left unsaid, unless the other person initiates it. This experience got me thinking about why high-end modeling is often more successful. Perhaps it's because building high-quality conversations and relationships takes time and effort, rather than just seeking instant gratification. Enjoying the moment is important, but we must also consider the other person's feelings and boundaries. Next time, I'll remember this lesson and focus on the quality of our conversation and her feelings.

Today, I came across an interesting observation on a social media platform. A girl who called herself 'Little Fairy' was chatting with a guy, and the guy, following the usual Chinese politeness, complimented Little Fairy's outfit. However, Little Fairy responded by saying that her outfit didn't look good, and the guy bluntly expressed his true thoughts, saying that her outfit was actually quite ugly. As a result, Little Fairy immediately blocked the guy. This story sparked my thoughts: Yu Minhong once said that Chinese women's EQs and IQs are getting lower and lower. This phenomenon is particularly evident on social media platforms. Many girls on these platforms are extremely picky and capricious, and they often block people at the slightest provocation. I think there are multiple reasons for this phenomenon. Firstly, the anonymity of social media makes it easier for people to express their true thoughts, but it also makes them more vulnerable to hurt. Secondly, Chinese women are often taught to be elegant and polite in traditional culture, but this teaching is often ignored on social media. Finally, I want to say that social media dating observations do reflect the changes in Chinese women's EQs and IQs. However, we shouldn't be overly pessimistic. After all, social media is just a platform, and real life is what truly matters.

This screenshot is too funny! The girl's morning stroll around the neighborhood seems to be the perfect ending to this story. Of course, the story of this girl and the old man will continue, and maybe there will even be a podcast to share their experiences. Such stories are not uncommon in our lives; people come together or drift apart for various reasons. These complex human relationships make us ponder the true meaning of love and life. The story of the girl and the old man may have ended, but their experiences will be recorded and become a topic of conversation for others. Through their story, we see the complexity of human nature, the helplessness of love, and the realities of life. These true stories are more captivating than any fictional tale, as they reflect the real issues and emotions we face in life. Such stories are worth our contemplation and sharing. Podcasts, as a new form of media, allow us to delve deeper into the details and underlying reasons behind these stories. Through them, we can see human weaknesses and strengths, the beauty and helplessness of love and life. Sharing these stories not only enriches our lives but also helps us better understand others and ourselves.

Tonight, something happened that left me feeling quite disheartened. I had made plans with a girl to meet at her place, but when I arrived, she didn't come down. We had met once before and everything had gone smoothly, but tonight was a completely different story. I waited for 45 minutes, not counting the 20 minutes it took me to get there, for a total of 65 minutes. I had timed it just right, and when the 45 minutes were up, I left. I paid the 3 yuan parking fee and headed home. Just as I was almost there, she called me, saying she was ready and wondering why I hadn't responded. I didn't answer, having already thought of an excuse to use the next day - that I had fallen asleep in the car. Many friends don't understand why I didn't just wait a bit longer, but the truth is, I've been burned in similar situations before. There was a time when I liked a girl, and we had already slept together, but when I went to pick her up the second time, I waited for four hours, from 2 pm to 6 pm. When she finally came down, she casually mentioned that her mom had been cooking dinner and she had taken a nap because she wasn't feeling well. I tried to play it cool, but my mental state had already collapsed. When I drove her back, I even crashed into someone else's car in the neighborhood. Needless to say, nothing happened that day. So, if I had waited this time, even if she had eventually shown up, it would have affected my mood, and I wouldn't have been in the right mindset. Moreover, if I had waited, she might have taken even longer next time, so the best strategy was to retreat and not let my emotions get the better of me. I just pretended I had gone for a drive to listen to music, and that way, I avoided becoming a slave to my desires.

Yesterday, while on a date, I encountered a situation that caught me off guard. The girl across from me was more attractive than my date. She was wearing a red off-the-shoulder backless dress with high heels, looking like a mini-celebrity. Most men wouldn't be able to resist giving her a second glance, and I was no exception. But when she got up to leave, a small detail made me suddenly realize and change my opinion. She was carrying an LV tote bag stuffed to the brim, looking quite heavy. Many people wouldn't notice such details on a date, but I've been burned before. The difference between a girl with good economic conditions and one who's trying to maintain a refined image often lies in these small details. This type of woman wears all her wealth on her sleeve, but her living situation is exposed in her bag - unable to afford a hotel, always looking for a place to rest. I've dated women like this before, and even when they're on a date with you, they're secretly looking for the next opportunity. They're not there to enjoy themselves, but to take photos, check in, and find the next chance. Do you think she'll be content? No, it's ingrained in her genes. The most dangerous women aren't necessarily the most beautiful, but those who only show you what they want you to see. Details are everything. What I want to say is that a truly high-value woman isn't just someone who wears designer brands and has a refined makeup look. She's someone with real economic power, a good living situation, and a strong sense of self-worth. These women, their confidence and value don't come from superficial things, but from within and the substance of their lives.