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Have you ever encountered a situation where a girl you're chatting with on a dating app is extremely enthusiastic at first, but becomes very cold after you add her on WeChat or chat with her the next day? The chat records show that she invites you out and then says she's not familiar with you, which is a huge contrast to the conversation you had on the dating app the day before. Many people find this phenomenon baffling. First, let's talk about the solution: don't overthink it, just delete her, delete her immediately, and don't have any emotional fluctuations. Be like water and flow effortlessly, and maintain a stable emotional state. This is because online dating is a one-to-many game, and her energy and enthusiasm are divided among multiple people. She may have 10 points of energy, but she's only allocating 1 point to you. So, why is she so enthusiastic at first? Simply put, she's a 'player' who's casting a wide net to catch fish. She's releasing her availability, setting thresholds, and filtering people to eventually find someone to take advantage of. This behavior pattern is common on dating apps, so we need to stay vigilant and avoid being deceived. So, how can we avoid being deceived? First, we need to understand the rules and potential risks of dating apps. Second, we need to stay alert and avoid being swayed by sweet talk. Finally, we need to have enough self-respect and boundaries, and not let others control us easily. In short, we need to stay vigilant and keep a clear head when chatting on dating apps to avoid being deceived and hurt. We need to understand the potential risks and rules, maintain our self-respect and boundaries, and find true friends and partners.