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Recently, I went to a concert with a girl, and it was super fun! We have another date next week, and concert tickets are really cheap now. She's coming from Wuxi, and after the concert, we'll head straight to my place. Want to know how I asked her out on Weibo? I'd like to share my experience: At first, I looked for celebrity super topics, which are the most concentrated gathering place for fans and suitable for beginners. I searched for the celebrity's name + super topic and followed it, then browsed the hot posts for 3-5 days to get familiar with the discussion topics and common memes in the fan circle, avoiding any sensitive topics. When I met someone I could chat with, I followed her and interacted with her 2-3 times before sending a private message to continue the conversation, taking it step by step. Later, I found that group chats are the most efficient way to connect with others. Many fan clubs and fan leaders open group chats with no requirements, usually only asking you to follow the celebrity and super topic. In the group, people chat about daily life, share fan art, and discuss gossip, making it easy to start a conversation. The entrance is usually in the group chat section of the super topic or in the pinned Weibo post of the fan club. Don't join the core group at the beginning; I had a friend who added me to one, and they asked me to recite a slogan as soon as I joined. What slogan? I sent a '天王盖地虎' (a casual greeting), and I got kicked out immediately. You can also search for the city name + celebrity name + fan group to find local fans, and after meeting them, it's easy to plan offline activities like concerts, meetups, or fan gatherings. If you have plenty of free time, participate in offline events like concerts, birthday celebrations, or fan meetups. Sharing an experience with others makes it easy to build a connection quickly. There's a special section in the super topic for finding companions, where you can search for a specific concert + city + companion to find fans attending the same concert, and you can carpool, share a hotel, or enter the venue together.