Desheng Li

Today, I added someone, and without asking, I directly guessed: Is it because of domestic violence? She sent several shocked expressions: How did you know!!!!! I think everyone has their own story, and every story may hide some pain and secrets. Sometimes, we don't need to ask too many questions to guess someone's past. I know a friend who always appears strong and independent, but at times, I catch glimpses of pain in her eyes. One day, I asked her: 'Have you ever experienced something particularly sad in the past?' She was taken aback, then told me that her parents divorced when she was very young, and she's always felt abandoned. I suddenly realized that she's been trying to hide her vulnerability. Everyone has their own pain, and everyone is trying to move forward. Sometimes, we don't need to ask too many questions to guess someone's past. I think that's why I was able to guess that person's experience with domestic violence. Because I've been through similar things myself, I can feel her pain. I think everyone should have more empathy, more understanding, and more tolerance.